| Location | London |
| Age | 24 years |
| Date of Birth | 10/1983 |
| Date of Death | 7/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,963 since 10/08/2008 |
| Creator |
Gem I have found him and I don't know what to do. I can get hold of him at the making of a call but I don't know what to do for the best.
I know it won't bring you back, but he deserves it and then some. I still miss you every day.
I can't believe this...
My name is Daniel and I dated Gemma back in 2003/4. Things didn't work out for us as we were young an naive. We also shared another special connection - we both had the same foster mother at different stages in our lives..
I left the UK in 2004 to come a realize my dreams in the U.S, one of which was starting a record label, something that was kind of the basis Gemma and I's short relationship - our love for music. Over the past 6/7 years I've searched all over Facebook, MySpace etc, hoping to connect with her again - seeing her all grown up and hopefully doing well for herself
My latest search today brought me this bad news and I am in complete shock! Why, why, WHY!? My life will never be the same knowing that I got the chance to make good and be at peace with myself, and that Gemma was taken away from the earth and her family. Today is truly a sad, sad day for me..
My up-most and sincerest condolences. :( xx
Daniel
email: dan@nexgenmusicgroup.com
Special Memories
Gem I cant believe your gone but I treasure the amazing memories of laughs and good times from barbados and back home in clapham. Your in my thoughts often. xx
Gemma babe,
I have been tryin and trying not to be really angry constantly, but its not really working out for me. I have never had to deal with this before, I lost plenty of mates over last few years through heavy stuff I should of known better than to get involved in, and have had a few close scrapes along the way, but i never lost anyone i loved and there aint many people i ever loved as much as i did you. Im filled with anger that i was not in touch with you at the time, to do anything about it, that will be with me for the rest of my life, but then so will you.
I am not the sort of person who writes these kind of things, but i dont care what anyone thinks or says i loved you and it hurts.
I made a promise to myself that i wouldnt look for revenge, and as hard as that is im going to stick to it. Your mum has been so kind to me that i dont want to break that promise to her, what a lovely lady, it aint hard to see where you got it from.
I have decided that i am makin a promise to you now, im changing my life, im not gonna be involved in any heavy duty stuff, im not gonna be putting myself on offer and gettin nicked or banged up, its stupid, and i have had a real look at myself recently
I will never forget you and the only thing i have left to smile about is the fact i will get to see you again one day, cause your up there now doin some crazy stuff and hassling some poor person to go out, keep it up babe dont ever change.
I will be coming to see you soon, now i got the court case out the way i am free of all that and i need to speak to you, to tell you how sorry i am i werent there for you, if i had been, i would be in prison now not that piece of scum, and you would still be here babe, and it makes me so sad.
I swear to you on my life, til; the day i die nobody will ever hurt another member of your family, I will make sure of it.
Im not good with words and stuff like that, but the thing i do know is everywhere you went people loved you, and that says enough about you for me.
See you soon, and rest in peace my special ladee G, you were one of a kind.
x
A letter to Gemma
Well Gemma, the trial is over the verdict given and the sentence passed.
Nearly two years have gone since you died and we still love and miss you so much.
If love was enough to give you life then you would be sitting next to us now as your Mum and me write.
But it's our pain and desire to see you again that breaths life into the memories we have of you instead, connecting us to you, so that you live on in our hearts.
The words in the eulogies that were said at your funeral are as true today as they were then.
From your Mum it was: "....my life will never be the same Gem, I love you so much and miss you so bad...
Dad says: "...your the little girl I long to hold in my arms and the woman I am proud to call daughter..."
From your sister: "...trusting your nearby with your energy and love and a guiding and healing angel above..."
And your brother: "...it's hard to belive you have left my life, but you haven't left my heart..."
Gemma these words I hope convey to you just how special you were and still are to us. You were unique, you were beautiful, you were charming, you were creative, you were even a little bit crazzzzy!
But we loved you, and you were ours.
You were quite simply "GEMMA". XXXX
My little sis,
it's been a long journey but today was your day for justice.
no words will ever express how much i love and miss you and your crazy antics.
the kids look for you as the brightest star in the night sky and life is never going to be the same without you in it.
now you can RIP safe in the arms of angels until we meet again.
luv ya forever Ladee G!
hope your up there strutting your stuff and causing angelic mischief and mayhem! xxxxxxx
To someone special... Gemma Dorman
Not sure what to say... I am totally lost for words.... You were my crazy girl... After meeting in 2002 via the radio... and then in 2007/08 outside cafe de paris... i thought wow... maybe our paths will cross in the future for the third time... When i was with you we had so much fun together... you were a free spirit and I can not believe that I will not see you again...
I remember the times we had when you lived in ladywell and roehampton... you loved that Miami dvd i did!!!!
you will always have a special place in my heart...
Dante
The most frightening night of my life!
Gemma..... You don't know me, but for the few moments that I looked into your eyes after that person hurt you so badly, badly enough to take your life, I made a decision to try to help as much as I can.
I wish that there was some way for your family to know that I have crutial evidence that the police DO have, to hopefully get that awful person put away for a long time. I saw everything, and the whole thing haunts me to this day, Thursday 31st July 2008......... a date I will not forget until I can give evidence in court to clear my mind!
I will not give up, and I hope that your family can find some peace!
gutted
Gemma was my ex, I loved her so much it actually hurt and lost touch with her through moving not long after we split up for work reasons. I have spent the years ever since trying to find her and then i go and find this out. To say i am devastated would be an understatement. I dont get this what happened to my baby? There isnt even anything i can do.
Gemma, I loved you so much, you made me smile and cry at the same time, you were the ONLY thing back then that made me want to do anything with my life and stay out of trouble and i will miss you so much. I remember you rescuing me in your flat in sydenham from your crazy cat who ALWAYS attacked me! I will always have only amazing memories of you and thank you for every second i got to spend in your company, you were amazing and the only girl I really cared about. RIP and I know one day you will get to rescue me from that cat again. I love you.
If this is something somebody did to her, i want to know who and where i can find them please. If ANYTHING needs paying for for Gemma can someone please let me know.
My Darling Girl
I miss you more and more as time passes. I think about you still so much. I hope you are now at peace and smiling that beautiful smile of yours. I feel so cheated of my beautiful cousin. I have so much I want to tell you and I do often I just hope you can hear me. Love you always and Forever. Victoria XXXX
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